The Benefits of Sharing Metta With Children
Teaching children metta, or loving-kindness meditation, can be one of the best skills you impart to your child's development. As a parent, caregiver, or educator, you want your children to be happy and successful. However, it's important to remember that happiness and success come not only from external factors but also from within. Metta is a powerful tool for cultivating inner positivity and self-acceptance, as well as developing empathy and compassion. Practicing metta can dramatically improve your child's overall well-being. 
Here's why teaching children metta can be beneficial:

Metta is based on the idea of intentionally cultivating positive emotions towards oneself and others. When practiced regularly, it can strengthen the feelings of love, compassion, and kindness in children. These emotions then become habituated, leading to a more positive outlook on situations and relationships. By teaching children metta, they learn to replace negative emotions with positive ones, empowering them with tools for building emotional resilience.

Metta isn't just about sending love and compassion to others. It also teaches children to send that same love and compassion to themselves. Practicing metta enables children to recognize their own intrinsic value, in turn, develop a kind relationship with themselves. This self-acceptance helps children to develop greater self-confidence, resilience, and inner peace.

Metta meditation helps children to recognize the inherent worth and dignity of all human beings. It invites children to generate feelings of kindness and compassion towards everyone, even people who may be different or difficult to connect with. This empathy and compassion help children develop a deeper understanding of others and a higher quality of relationships.

Metta provides a way to deal with stress and anxiety. When children cultivate positive emotions through metta, they counteract the negative emotions that can lead to mental health problems. Children who practice metta are more likely to experience lower levels of stress, anxiety, and negative self-talk. Over time, metta meditation becomes a coping mechanism for stress and encourages resilience.

To practice metta with children, you can start by simply having them sit comfortably and quietly and then guide them through visualizing sending love and kindness to themselves and others. You can use phrases like "May I be safe, may I be healthy, may I be happy. ", then extend those thoughts to family and friends, then again to all living beings. We have created a few free printouts that may be helpful.  

How long you practice metta will depend on your child’s age and ability to remain focused. Remember, it's important to approach metta with a gentle and loving attitude and to encourage children to be patient and kind to themselves as they practice.  Whether you are a parent, caregiver, or educator, creating a routine for practice can be as simple as a morning routine. If you share a family yoga practice, metta is a great intention to set for practice or a focus for meditation afterward! Educators, by taking a few minutes each day to practice metta with your students, you are teaching important SEL skills. 

Metta is an excellent tool for teaching children to be kinder, more compassionate, and more accepting towards themselves and others. By teaching children metta, we can empower them with positive habits of mind and support their overall well-being. So, why not explore ways in which you can teach metta to your children and make a difference in their lives? Your child will thank you later.